When Koji could compete in ironman world championships but couldn't figure out how to quit porn, he knew his problem wasn't that he wasn't strong enough. He needed a new approach.
My wife had to go to a presidency meeting tonight and I was alone at home. I put my son to bed and watch a show on my computer while doing some stretching. Not one urge. If someone told me 6 months ago that I could be left alone at night with my computer and not look at porn I would tell them they're crazy.
"I don’t have to will myself to stop watching porn anymore. Now I know how to reflect and process my emotions, and pornography isn’t even a temptation anymore."
"I’ve tried every pornography program out there and this is the only one where I see an end in sight. These are new skills, and it’s actually working."
"Because of this program, my life has changed 100%. I’ve made changes that I didn’t think were possible. I now know that I have the tools to make any change that I set my mind to. 12/10, worth everything I put into it."
"Sara’s methods are the best that I have ever encountered in my long fight against pornography. She has helped me overcome a fight I’ve been fighting for years."
"Before we started together, I noticed that my life felt void of positivity and I had really begun to see myself in a negative light. I had resigned myself to the thought that I would deal with pornography for my whole life and that overcoming it wasn't really necessary because it wasn't a possibility. Sara taught me how to see the facts, shape my beliefs, and how to shape my future. She helped me see that I can overcome pornography and she helped me put my future back in my hands. I am lots happier with myself, far more positive, and have gained a lot of light back into my life. I am super grateful I went with my gut and tried out Sara's coaching. I had followed her for a long time on Instagram and knew there was something different and special about the way she taught things. Try her out and you will see progress in your life that will change you for the better."
"About a month ago there was an occurrence where I viewed pornography. Although I wasn’t happy about it, I didn’t enter a multi-day episode of depression and lack of sleep from it. I never had a single thought of self-loathing or disappointment. I was able to process the event and keep moving forward.
I’m still amazed at my ability that you helped me foster to manage those urges. Just last night I started to have urges to view pornography and even started to search it but then I was able to work through that urge in a positive way."
"A lot of us have been told since we were kids that pornography was bad, evil, and to be avoided at all costs. I felt as if I would have to endure this for the rest of my life. That was until I miraculously found Sara. She taught me exactly how my brain was working and helped me find a personalized plan to overcome this porn habit. I know for a fact I can overcome this, and that’s because of Sara’s help and guidance. I’ll forever be grateful I found her."
“Sara’s program has done so much to give me power over how I think and feel about my actions with pornography and other parts of my life as well. Because of this newfound control and motivation, I have not looked at pornography in months and my desire to do so has dropped significantly. There is a whole new me because of this program.”
“I finally have that spiritual connection I was searching for months before participating in the program.”
"Before the program my life was pretty good, but I lacked the direction necessary to overcome my pornography problem. Sara provided a new way of looking at the issue. She didn't just sharpen an already-existing tool that I was using to combat my pornography habit; she gave me an entirely different tool. She was very easy-going and never made me feel ashamed about my progress. Though I'm still learning how to use these tools effectively, I can tell that they are the key to overcoming my habit."
"I was unsure if I'd be able to get my addiction under control. I had tried multiple times in the past to stop, to only fall short again and again. I was really discouraged and my self-esteem was really low. But now, I'm able to process my urges at night and throughout the day. I have more confidence in myself and have more hope for the future. Thank you so much for your time and training! It's been life changing!"
"I found working with Sara an absolute life changer - Seriously! Everything we talked about can actually be applied to anything we're going through in life. It has especially helped me work on those shame and guilt cycles that I used to find myself stuck in.
Her sessions have been the most helpful I’ve ever experienced. Rather than just talking about issues in my life, it actually gave me the hands-on skills to work at it. I am so glad I gave it a shot as I was so close to canceling, but really it was life-changing. I have been recommending her to friends, I have found it so helpful."
"I let my porn habit consume me. I thought I would look at porn my whole life. I would willpower it out for 3 months and feel amazing about myself. And then I would “slip up” and look at porn constantly. I was desperate.
I am a long-distance triathlete. I understand what work is. I just didn’t know how to work on my brain. I believed in myself to do an Ironman, but I didn’t know how to believe in myself enough to quit porn.
When I met with Sara, I knew that she had something different about her. She knows what she is doing, and she teaches you to become the healer. Honestly, investing in her program has been one of the top three best decisions in my life.
My outlook, perspective, self-love, confidence, and self-esteem is through the roof! Now, 3-4 months post-program I am porn free. I just had to really get through some demons first. Guys, It’s a folk tale that you will struggle with this forever. You really can stop, anyone can. Take the investment. You deserve it. You’re worth it."
"Before I started the program life seemed very bleak. It just felt like I would never be able to overcome pornography. I had been trying to overcome pornography for years and nothing seemed to work. I attended other programs but it never seemed to help. I just felt very hopeless.
Sara was able to help me by seeing that the urge to view pornography was nothing to be afraid of. The urges did not make me a bad person. She helped me to see that overcoming pornography was a lot more simple than I had been making it. She then helped me to see how I can actually take control of my feelings, emotions, and thoughts.
I think the overall transformation that took place for me was to see myself as a new person. I was able to see that I am not an addict or someone struggling, I am someone who is learning and who is succeeding because I am committed. I was able to learn how to let myself let go of my past and allow myself to build a new future without pornography.
It has been a great experience because it hasn't been just me biting the bullet to not view, but rather it has been me retraining my mind to not have this very strong desire to view. Since I have started to work with Sara it has been very amazing to see and feel the decrease in my desire to view pornography. There are moments when I would normally have an urge to view, but they are not there. I have found that since my desire has decreased I have found more time to do the things I want to do and it feels really great."